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whiplash
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 Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 1:07 pm Post subject: Making a genuine emotional commection |
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Ok there is a lot of thoughts on this so I want to clear up some stuff so you actually understand how to do this. Building a true emotional connection is my strength. I may not always have a billion crazy attract tactics, but I know how to make a solid connection with a girl once i'm in.
The key to making a strong emotional connection is being able to relate to her on an emotional level. I know this may sound kind of stupid but i is actually more complex than one might think.
I wrote a post on Masf a while ago about learning about types of energy and it really is the truth. After a lot of field experience or just social experience with a lot of different types of people you start to get a feel for different types of energies people give off.
For example if someone is really loud and crazy you don't want to come in super mellow and chill or they won't be able to relate to you. The same is true if you come in too crazy with a group of mellow people, they will look at you like you are crazy. This all have to do with energy level. There are two different sides to energy when calibrating in the field:
Energy type
Energy level
Type has to do with whether someone is really goofy or sarcastic or even angry. All the different types of energy people give off are out there. To be a good PUA you need to be able to recognize all of these and be able to adjust them with instinct so that you can relate to people.
Level has to do with the intensity of the type of energy people are giving off. The above example gives you an idea of what i'm talking about.
Building a real genuine emotional connection is not something that can be done through techniques. It must be done through calibration through vast field experience. It is basically your ability to relate to others around you. If people feel as if they can relate to you they will open up to you consistently and you will never have a problem creating an emotional connection.
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