Learning the skills of dating, of seduction, of pickup...
is a journey definitely worth taking.
Since embarking on the path to improve my pickup skills, dating skills and seduction I have improved my self-confidence immeasurably.
I have improved my ability to stand up to bullies, in the workplace, and out in the world.
I am no longer the guy who gets easily blown out when I'm talking to a girl and another male comes up to hit on her. I used to not know what to do, how to handle the other guys when we were competing for the same girl. I didn't know how to handle myself. Sometimes I would mope; sometimes I would fold and walk away. If one of my friends was my competition, trying to horn in on the attractive girl, I would often settle for her less attractive friend, "taking one for the team" AKA "jumping on the grenade".
Now I know how to handle the other guys, the male competition. And it has much more to do with social intelligence than it does with physical prowess.
When I started out on this journey, I wanted to learn if there really were behaviors and attitudes that would increase my ability to attract women. I wanted to know if there really existed specific, learnable techniques and skills that were more effective than others in seducing the hearts, minds and bodies of women. Could I create attraction? Better yet, could I create so much attraction that it turned into lust? Like the alchemists of ages past wanted to turn copper into gold, so I wanted to turn my interactions with women, especially beautiful women, into attraction, lust, sex and eventually, potentially longer relationships.
A lot of men begin the study of seduction to figure out what they should be doing to get laid more often and get laid by hotter women. A lot of men are just hoping to be able to get an attractive girlfriend, a beautiful woman to spend some time with. Some men, typically further along in life, want to attract and marry the kind of woman they would be proud to call wives. And others are trying to get back into the "GAME" after just getting out of disappointing relationships, which may have failed in part because the men didn't yet know how to "the men", or they came from a mindset of scarcity, not believing they had many options, and therefore put a ring on one of the first women (NOT necessarily one of the BEST women) who showed some interest in them and/or who slept with them.
Understanding how to get women to have sex is certainly the primary benefit a man expects when he begins to study seduction. However, as men who had study seduction will readily tell you, the study of seduction teaches men a lot more than simply how to get a woman to have sex.
When a man walks down the seduction path, important side benefits begin to accrue and be internalized along the way. Foremost among these, a man learns how to be a man. He learns how to stand up for himself. He realizes he is capable of standing up for causes he believes in. He develops self-esteem and improve his self-respect. He learns about social dynamics; the social value individuals carry; how his own social value relative to other people's impacts the treatment he receives, and what he can do to improve his social value and how the world treats him. He overcomes his fear of women specifically and social interactions generally. He can now approach attractive women and other people as needed or desired. He understands he does not need to buy attention or sex from women, with drinks, gifts, flowers, dinner, etc.; but that he must become a "whole man".
A man starts learning seduction so he can get laid more, so that he can have a more beautiful woman than he has ever had, and the art and science of seduction will enable him to do those things, but enable him to do so much more.
He will come to realize that playful teasing and humor are not only effective in attracting women in bars, clubs and supermarkets, but also in dealing effectively with other relationships, with co-workers, supervisors, subordinates, family, friends, acquaintances and strangers.
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